What is eternal love?

It is the capacity to forgive all that a person has from passed karmas because we are all ‘one’. Luther King said: “each man that dies lessens me because I am inserted in humanity”.
Therefore, it is my eternal capacity of loving all creatures that are themselves eternal.
And we can always love what we choose to love; it is in our free will. To deeply love someone, we must accept the person as he, or she is. When we have an opinion of someone, we are actually judging that person. To have an opinion is really to judge, it is thinking that we know what is right and wrong, it is going beyond human nature’s capacity. Only God judges and fortunately, always forgives.
We should not criticize others if we want to love them. Criticism is an invitation to separation and if there is no togetherness, then we cannot go very far. We should rather say I LOVE YOU at all times and to everyone for everything they are, and with respect.
Yet sometimes fear forbids us to see things correctly, although we actually have a “filter of fear”, we have the capacity to see things quite clearly.
It so happens that when we are born, we are involved in a ‘fear pit’ which is in our chakra of the root, below the vertebral spine. Every time we are affected by something unexpected or unknown provoking our loss of control, the ‘fear pit’ is automatically discharged. Meaning, nothing remains as was.
An asphyxiating look, a heart in fear, can no longer see clearly. By then, everything is blurred, energy does not flow and all seems to be a burden. This filter does not destroy itself, instead it learns, and the more light we get, the higher we reach, the more we relate ourselves to heaven, the less we have our feet on earth and our roots are minimized - FEAR ONLY EXISTS ON EARTH.
People are not always whom they say they are.
Why do they show something they are not?
Why does this occur?
Because their inner truth was taken away, that strength from within which makes us truthful and honest to us and to others for our own sake?
For those who have conscious of their inner truth it is easier to reject lies. Yet people, who are false, find it very difficult to follow the right path and connect themselves to their own soul. Actually, for the latter, the solution is to stop all sort of basic sentiments such as sadness, fear, happiness, etc. and become rational.
We connect ourselves to heaven through emotion, so we must help others and teach them how to connect themselves to heaven and then let the rest ‘flow’.
“Love your neighbour as yourself” – is this that difficult?
Do we have to suffer to learn…?
Us humans?
Us ‘one and only’?