Grounding and chakra balancing...

Several years ago I went through a terrible break up. I was with someone who I really loved and planned to spend the rest of my life with. Things didn't work out the way we had planned and things ended. I felt terrible, he wouldn't even say goodbye or turn around to look at me as he left and we had been together for 4 years. This situation on top of an unplanned pregnancy 2 years before that I have been out of balance. I need help re-opening my heart, mind and soul. Please let me know if you can help guide me to balancing my entire being and get me back to the open being I was before these two significant events took place in my life. I would not trade my precious gift for the world. My little crystal boy Matthew Ramon was a gift from God. He has helped me to stay strong with his unconditional love and support (he is only 3 yet he knew just the right moment to sit on my lap, give me a hug, give me a kiss, or just touch my face). It was the circumstance around the pregnancy and not the pregnancy itself that caused some unbalancing in my life. I am strong but I can feel the unbalance within. Please help me find myself again so that I can continue to be a strong example for both of my children.
Namaste
Lisa