confusing twin&soulmates

Hi everyone, I´m new here and not from a english speaking country, so please bear over with me

I am in mess with my twin/twinsouls. I have met several, and now one, that I have a loverelation to,
which I have been in doubt, if he was actually my twin, or "just" soulmate. But with my last experiences,
I believe he is my actual twin, and that I was wrong with the first one.

I have so many questions, and I hope and wonder if some of you might be able to guide me.
No doubt we´re madly in love, love at first sight. From the first time, my chakra´s were spinning like crazy,
like never experienced.
Everytime we talk, it´s the same and we both feel like our chakra´s coming together although we sit in front
of the computer! How can it be?
He doesnt believe in all this like this site. He doesnt want to talk about it, but even then, he admit all
what I am experiencing. He can feel it too. And has a lot of wisdom, h e just dont want to call it spiritual.

We are totally like yin and yang, that´s what surprises me most, I always thought we should be likeminded.
We are opposite in every way. In every thought. It is very polarized. How come?

we can feel eachother at night, he admitted he did too, and one night here it all went totally crazy.
He has some problems now, and he came to me at night, in my dream, climbing into my soul and joined me!
Our chakras went melted! it was no me no him it was just ONE. US.
what is this??
I woke up right before, felt he needed me.
I was still in my dream but not.
I was concious.
(no news for me Im often like that)
afterwards my chakra´s went on spinning, especially my roat chakra. at my back.
and feel we are united.
what is this and howcome?
can anybody tell me,what´s going on, I would be very grateful please.
Is he really my twin? is this sign?
my heart opens everytime we talk,I think of him etc.
lightgreatings Miamaria