Grace, My Understanding so far.
Grace is a state of being; it is a way of Life and a way of Living which brings one to an understanding that nothing really matters. If one comes across a teaching or opinion which does not fit ones own, a being of Grace will bless that teaching for the benefit which it brings to whose who follow it, yet take non of it as their own, for it is not needed at that moment.  A being of Grace holds neither ‘right’ nor ‘wrong’ and blesses neither the peacemaker nor the war mongerer with more or less credit, accepting that it simply IS.
Grace can remove the anger from fire by accepting that it is hot and holding no Blame for it, giving that fire nothing to fight. The flame is then neutral and can be utilised for many things. Grace can raise a victim up by holding no Blame for either perpetrator or victim and so removing all set conditions, easing a pathway towards self responsibility and mercy for both.Grace upholds Neither servant or the master, the abuser or the abused. All is neutral and holds no excess of anything.
That place of Grace is that simple understanding that all are equal, there is no excess of blame, no fear and no lack, no excessive love, joy or delight…therefore all are equal in everything and everything is broken down into nothing, it is a place where we can become one with all that is. From that place of nothing/all, we can choose to take a step into infinite Joy should we wish, stay within that point of nothing or neutrality or revisit lessons of fear etc; our choice.
When we have lost all attachment to blame and fear, love, joy etc, we can accept all and then make further choices towards our own goals and desires.
Grace! The art of accepting all that there is and attaching nothing to it.
Letting it Be.
A tool for reviewing ones life and lessons, standing within  a point of Grace with No fear, No Blame, no Joy and no Love; Simply Neutrality. From this review we see where our next steps shall be and we can take those steps with the Grace of knowing that all is well.
LOL From this point I chose to step into Joy and Laughter, yet because that came from a state of Grace and neutrality, I see that there is neither right nor wrong in choosing differently, just different lessons being learned….If I have no need for those lessons I have no need to walk with the energy of them, with Grace I can Bless it and allow it to flow past and away, knowing that All is well, those who need are receiving and those who aid with the learning are in place and teaching. I am the correct place for me to receive and to give as need arises, I can allow others to be at their place with no fear or concern; I am within Grace.