What I understand of psychiatry is that a schizophrenic person has a split personality. It means that a schizophrenic patient is not aware that he has a good and lovely side, but he also has a dark and ugly side.

Now this is what a human being is. The human being is both light and dark! Once we understand this basic knowledge, then we are able to see all those feelings inside ourselves. The biggest mistake I and many other humans are doing is to focus on one side and totally forget the other side.

Now, focusing is a good idea. I like to focus on what I love and appreciate in people, but at the same time I am aware that the same lovely, beautiful person in front of me has the potential of doing any cruelty to me.

What I always do, and most of us are doing is to judge and see one side of a personality only. This gives us the wrong picture but our thought also it gives us also always the confirmation that we are right of what are observing.

I now will go deeper into this my thought: I focus on something I like in a person and I give that persons compliments and I encourage the person to follow their passions and to enjoy life. This will create a good feeling in that person and the more I focus on what I want to see in a person the more I create that person to my liking.

Now about the dark side of people; this is not an area we need to focus. We are totally alert (like a cat when she is playing with the snake), that certain people have a strong dark side, but we are never focused on that. We keep our hearts open always and at the same time we do not allow anybody to disturb our peace by wanting to drag us into their human dramas.

This sounds cruel. We are compassionate and loving being, how can we be so cold? How can we not feel the suffering of others?

This is a question which bothers me most of my life till now. Finally I found a solution. My decision is that I relate to people in the Light only. If then the people love it and stay with me in the Light, then the relationships grows and much love is generated and after that Light spreads. The first two people come together and meet up with others and then others again. That is how the community grows. All have the same philosophy.

The relationships on this level are very different from what humans have done since now. We all will be listening to one person and silently absorb the information received. Here it is very important that we are in a meditative state. This allows us to by-pas our ego, so to speak when we reply to the person, who has given us something which is important for him/her in that precise moment.

Most of us (me included) want to speak much and listen less. The art of listening is a great technique to reach the heart of a person. My wife Shoshana is always telling me: “What a wife needs is a Golden Ear at least once in a day!” By being deeply interested what a person has to say and even encourage shy people to start talking about what is going on in their brains.

Now we have a choice! When we are listening to “Negativity” or “Believe Systems” we can focus on the negative and say to ourselves: this person is of low vibration, he/she is to much involved with the material world and this is his/her problem and we are not here to take on that peoples energy and consequently lower our vibrations.

The other way of dealing with the situation is to simply change the subject after some times. There are so many “tricks” to make people happy. If we are truly happy we will feel the desperation in which people are stuck, but we also know that we are all children and when we encounter something amazing and beautiful we just forget the world and we run after the miracle we just discovered.

So, you see, we create our reality. I feel that coming directly to this conclusion is sometimes not easy. I also many times fall into the trap and judge others as lower than me. This is not very intelligent, because everything changes all the time.

Some people purposely are there to confuse others and showing them their dark side only. This is a dangerous game, because I feel when somebody plays a role long enough than he/she becomes that part. This happens also because of the energy that person receives from other peoples fear and rejection. That’s how humanity has created so many monsters.

The importance in this story is to be relaxed and aware! We are strong we can deal with the person, who hurts us. We are all very strong and can deal with any situation; so don’t fool yourself by avoiding certain situations. All situations are here to be welcomed as they are. It doesn’t make much sense to resist to anything what is presented in front of us.

My experience tells me that all situations come back again and again till we welcome it. Then we realize that the people involved are also suffering. Whole of humanity is suffering. Nobody likes the stories which are going on. Then why nobody is doing anything to change things?

Here comes my impatiens. Of course all of us are contributing very much and I hope that with this my writing I am inspiring some of you. Certainly I inspire myself.

George/centreoflight September, 1st 2009 7.50AM