Love Skill #26 : Be Transparent
Two short videos that capture the essence of this immensely healing
and liberating love skill
http://thelovecenter.com/Love_Skill_26.htm



Affirmation

Love is always visible & healing

Action Step

Practice being visible with your heart today

Love Skill #26
Be Transparent

By Dr. Scott Peck & Shannon Peck

Transparency allows hearts
to share openly
& connect

Being transparent causes hearts to move rapidly into openness and
genuine intimacy.

Whenever you speak to someone with an open heart and a willingness to
reveal your true self, you are being transparent. You allow others to
see into your thinking, heart, and soul without barriers, role-
playing, or emotional games. You let down your walls.

| It is a joy to be with someone who is transparent. Hearts feel
refreshed and open. We feel like we are receiving an invitation to
genuine intimacy. Communication is real!

The beauty of transparency is that, whenever you take the plunge to
being transparent yourself, others in your presence will find their
hearts opening as well - uncontrollably!

A Love Master is keenly aware of the power of transparency to create
genuine intimacy and strives to live with a heart that is ready and
willing to be an open window with others.

Such openness may seem to make you vulnerable, but it actually causes
you to become more at ease with your core self - the real, magnificent
you alive and visible at last.

As you practice transparency, others will feel more emotionally safe
and open with their hearts as well.

They will also feel more loved because you are being emotionally
honest and real with them. They will appreciate you more because they
are seeing the genuine, real you - which is always more lovable than
the pretend, disguised, or hiding you.
Being transparent does not mean you have to spill your guts and openly
reveal every single challenge you are facing in your life with
everyone you meet.

As a Love Master, you adapt easily to various levels of openness in
relationships. Some relationships allow you to be fully transparent
because you know you are loved and safe. Others may feel more
restrictive. As a Love Master, you learn to sense when transparency
can be a valuable way to create intimacy.

Rather than thinking that being transparent is a risk, you understand
the intimacy payoffs of revealing your true self and choosing to be
with others who do the same.

If someone doesn't respond to your heart, this may not be a
relationship that will serve you at the level of soul. Let your heart
move on. As a Love Master practicing transparency, you have bravely
taken the initiative to create a maximum love opportunity.

This is all that Love wants you to do. Be unattached to the outcomes.

Transparency takes relationships to a higher level of soul
satisfaction and is a top love skill of a Love Master

Copyright (c) 2006-2009 by Scott & Shannon Peck

Posted and share with love,Rosalie xo