There are two kinds of love presently existing in this third density world, and it is easy to distinguish between the two once you know how. By knowing the differences and living in accordance with the true, proper sort of love and spreading this sort of information to others in order to have them understand, I do believe you would be helping to raise the love levels here on earth in a big way, and thus help with the entire process of ascension in a big way as well.
The first kind of love is a fake, perverted distortion of what real love is and has to offer, and it is the most prominent form that runs rampant throughout our world here; arrogantly parading around as if it were king, this is an egotistical version of love that is selfish, jealous, conditional, limited and inevitably doomed to fall apart in a catastrophic way due to the faulty, self-serving grounds it was built upon. This is a type of love that people get involved in and strive to gain haphazardly in order to meet their own needs rather than others, and their own wants and desires rather than others. Essentially, what happens is people will USE the feeling of love that can be obtained through relationships to serve their own personal emotional state of happiness and pleasure, rather than properly caring for or investing themselves into the person who is providing that love in the first place. What they fall in love with and care for is the feeling of love that can be generated itself, not the person or other being in the rightful way they should be.
The second kind of love is TRUE love. It is selfless, non-jealous, unconditional, unlimited, and something that will remain forever in the hearts of both involved. This is a love that is a given to others because you honestly and genuinely take joy and delight in having other people feel happy and pleasured. It is done not for yourself or your own personal pleasure or benefit, but for the extreme rush of euphoria you get from investing will and essence into another to invoke feelings of and love and caringness inside THEM. Yes in a roundabout way you are receiving happiness and pleasure by doing this, but there is no ego involved at all whatsoever, and it is indeed something very selfless and beautiful. It is loving others for the sake of loving them, and it is loving others so that they can feel loved and be happy, because that in and of itself is what TRULY will make you feel most fulfilled and happy.
True love, in the end, is a love without reason and something truly undefinable. Just in how all emotional experiences are only something that is feel-able and cannot themselves be put into any true words, they are, by nature, something only empathetically shared between humans and animals in an inexplicable realm of emotional status. What we CAN only ever really hope to put into word are what invokes those emotional responses within us; which is more or less just a vague explanation of that feeling of emotion and a scratch or light prod at the surface of what it actually mean, and herein lies the very complex, hard to understand nature of love and other emotions...
Love IS the ONE ultimate emotion in existence that binds us to together with a plethora of warm fuzzies and a mess of indescribable good stuff sensations. It is indeed what keeps us all together as ONE as souls in this way, and what intimately connects us in a way that can never be broken or severed. This one true sort of love is very rare however in our third density world however, and is something that can only really be obtained between two beings who have this deep sort of understanding of what love actually means. It is this true love that allows two souls to reach to farthest depths of each other’s beings and TRULY connect and become interwoven as one; neither of them expecting or demanding anything in return from each other, but both of them gaining everything that the other has to give.
So I say to you now… How many of the relationships in your life are of that first, egotistical version of love? And how many are of the real, true love? Are you angry, resentful or even hateful when someone doesn’t love you back in the proper way? Because you DESERVE their love, and because their love belongs to you alone? I believe the marriage of two people, and the entire boyfriend and girlfriend relationship status as well to be a vivid display of this sort of egotistical, very WRONG approach to love… Marriage is saying: “All of your romantic love belongs to me and me along.” Thus, marriage is an ideology that is inherently selfish, conditional and limited… NO versions of love should be handled in this way, especially not the romantic sort… You see why so many relationships fail in this realm, and this is one of the contributing factors to it, as well as to why there is so much drama, hate and sorrow being manifested in this world…
ALL forms of love should be free. When you are a true being of love, everywhere you go your love flows into all other forms of life within hesitance, restraint or limit. Your romantic love must also flow into all forms this way if that is a love that manifests in another being that you happen across, and to refrain from allowing this love to flow into another is just silly! For those you love, do you not wish them to be as happy and pleasured as possible? Do you not wish them an infinite amount of adventure, fun, meaning and fulfillment? When you form a “closed relationship”, you are preventing your lover from experience all forms of love to their absolute fullest. Can you not see that sex is not the epiphany of all things in existence, and is in the end just a very small factor in sharing your physical love with someone? Are you going to prevent your mate from experience romantic love in others because they might have sex with them as well?
Forming a “closed relationship” is something that stops many other avenues of loved development as well, and is most often the closing of many love doors in that way. People in this third density world may be prevented from getting to know another being here to the extent that they would like because of their gender. It is not something acceptable in current society for married women to spend too much time with another male and vice versa, otherwise jealous might be formed or one might feel guilty for doing such a thing because it isn’t “loyal.” Can you not see that love, even in the romantic form, is never something that should be jealous or selfish in this way? Can you not see how having these sorts of closed relationships limits the development of MANY different kinds of love on top of the romantic one you so adamantly safeguard?
I am not advocating cheating or betrayal of any sort in telling you these things… I am advocating and promoting how true love should be without any sort of ego attached. Open relationships should always be approached carefully, and there should be no sneaking around behind your mate’s back, of course. One must always be honest, genuine and truthful in ALL relationships, and all emotions and thoughts should be conveyed as they arise. I am a promoter of this true form of love, that is all.
I am all loving, and I try to assign as closely to that true sort of love as possibly can. If any of you out there reading this have any in depth thoughts or feelings you would like to share with me and have answered in the way of love, send me a message, as I would be glad to answer them. If any of you out there yourselves feel as though are ‘unloved’ or alone in this world, please send me a message so I can invest my thoughts, feelings and being into you in order to make you feel loved and cared for. I will not judge or ever deny my friendship to love to anyone in this world, and this is an offer that extends out for an infinite amount of time. So please, if you feel as though you don’t have anyone, and you need a friend to talk to about any given touchy topic in the world, come find me!
Thank you! I love you all~ Go forth and be filled with this true sort of love my fellow light workers! Continue to spread your light on this steadily illuminating world!