sorry if this is in the wrong catagory ! or if its not supposed to be in any catagory at all haha.

but ,
i have a weird problem with intimacy.

i dont know if this is just me being contrary or what,
but if i am developing a good relationship with someone, if they seem un-interested
in having sex with me, i'll feel really inclined to have it ! and can easily be attracted
to them.

but, if they do / say sexual things towards me, i'll pull away physically and emotionally.
unless i'm not interested in them as a partner.
romantically, it's like i can never get intimate with someone i care for,
if they let me believe they're sexually into me.

is that weird?
or is it just a fear of not being appreciated as a person ?