Have you ever questioned why we are told:
”If it resonates with you, embrace it, and if it doesn’t then let it go.”
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Just what does it mean to resonate?
Why do some thoughts resonate and others don’t?
If something resonates with you, isn’t it just two energies that can co-exist in that moment, holding some type of unspecified connection?
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Why do we resonate with another person and then we stop resonating with that person. As human beings, many go through their life, looking for someone they can resonate with on such a level of beauty that it never goes away and it never ends. Wow, now that must be the Ultimate Soulmate!
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Some people resonate with many soulmates! It last a few years with one, and when the energies of discord begin to show up, the struggle within often begins. Does that mean we are not resonating with that person any longer, does it mean we have gained all we can from our resonating friendship with that person. Does it mean there is another energy waiting for us to resonate next with? So one energy connection has to die for the other to begin. Can it mean it is maybe time for us to begin to resonate within our Self, with our Self.
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I have never understood why some women are so enticed by the energy of a so called "Bad Boy". They tend to be controlling, abusive, manipulative experiences. Yet, I know it is all about the energy connection! Still I gotta shake my head and laugh and wonder why, why, why???
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If like a person connection, something resonates within us and we are drawn to it, like a message, concept, thought or idea, what exactly does that mean? Does it mean that is our truth too? Does it mean that thought is the next thought in our evolution and growth of our self? Does it mean there is a value in our exploring that thought or that group and maybe we might make a connection we could not or would not if the resonating energy did not invite us in? Would we simply pass by like we do when we walk past a stranger?
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I have discovered in the past, when something resonates with me, it is most often not the group or the group energy, or the thoughts shared their within. But rather, it is about connecting with another person whom is also active there within that group. From every group I tend to eventually walk away from, I walk away with a friendship connection. A connectin I know may continue or return to me, like a butterfly, in a future moment.
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Sometimes pictures resonate within me, and other times they do not! Have you ever noticed, that when something does not resonate with us, as human’s we tend to push it away, ignore it, not even look at it? Why don’t we explore it to discover why the energy that resonates to discourage us, exists in that form for us.
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If all we as human’s do is follow that which resonates within….could we be missing something?
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Is the energy that resonates within us, an invitation or an energy that says stay away, controlling you, or choosing for you? If all a person ever does is embraces what resonates in a beautiful inviting way, is the resonating energy choosing for you? If it is, is it always true to you and in your highest good? Some people believe so.
”If it resonates with you, embrace it, and if it doesn’t then let it go.”
Why would we be told to embrace what resonates, and let go of that which does not?
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Gee this seems to be giving away the freedom to choose? Do you allow energy to choose for you? Is this how you go through your life? Are you comfortable with going with what resonates and staying away from that which does not?
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40 years ago, I felt a resonating, attraction energy towards a young woman in high school. The energy was so strong I struggled to ignore it. Although we seemed to have little in common, we still were energy drawn to marriage. 22 years of the most unfulfilling time with another person/friend/partner/spouse followed. I would never have believed possible, but it was so obvious when I was in that marriage. BUT, even though those 22 years were a hell I would never choose to go through again, I had two awesome children.
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What couldn’ I see? It resonated so strong and yet, it was so empty! A folse energy? A deceptive energy? A manipulating energy? A controlling energy? Did the energy that resonated so strong take away my ability to choose, or was I just so blind, I followed it into a chasim of it’s unfilfilling energy.
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Just know my friends! If you follow an energy that resonates with the sweet smell of your dreams being fulfilled….do so not blindly…..but with your eyes wide open…knowing if you venture there within, the energy that resonates can be a deceptive energy! So enter! Open that door! Know that if it resonates…..it does not mean you are going to gain anything from going there.
But you may if you choose to discover what that opportunity holds for you with your eyes wide open.
I have absolutely no resentment for my “ex” and I do not struggle with the idea, that I did not choose to marry that young woman. That choice was made for me by the energies that resonated with me. Within that process I learned more that I could share in a small book.
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I am wiser now! When an energy arises within me of any type, I look at it and determine if it is true to me, true for me, or an invading energy attempting to control me and choose for me. Then I choose to be with it, accept it or dissolve and release it.
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What energies does this include? Anger, resentment, love, fear, apprehension, concern, happiness, uncertainty, jealousy, manipulation, deception, lying, being less than, being more than, false value of Self, any energy of lack….etc…etc! Some may ask, why would you not want to experience love and happiness? If I am the creator/co-creator of it, I know it can last. If it just shows up, it is more than likely only a temporary fleeting energy of moment!
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I have come to understand this about energy! It can arrive like a wolf in sheeps clothing and it can be a wolf, as gentle as a lamb! But it is just energy! Energy in any other form is just energy, nothing more, nothing less.
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I am the Conscious Essence of SELF, experiencing the experience of how energy can control my experiences and choices! I am not these experiences, and I am not these energies, I Am the Conscious Essence of SELF experiencing the experience of these experiences!! What I take from it, how I learn and grow within each experience is based on my desire to look at each one and gain a deeper understanding afterwards, than I could know when I was blinded and caught up in the experience.
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I embrace the human experience and all the potentiality and possibilities that exist within it.
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I journaled about 10 years ago.
“My life is not mine to live, until I am free to live it!”
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For me that means many things and takes on many connotations of thought!
Yet what I do no, is when any other energy of this universe attempts to choose for me, whether it resonates or does not resonate within me….I am not yet free to live my life free of those controlling, manipulating energies. “But I am free to BE ME!!” Will it (“My life is not mine to live, until I am free to live it!”) happen in this lifetime? Of this I have no doubt! In the meantime I have come to realize how very patient I Am and can Be regardless of how any energy effects or attempts to influence me!
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What am I suggesting here? To look at what is within the energy and to understand or ask the question WHY....WHY....WHY does this resonate within me? There maybe more too it than you have looked at or taken the time to understand before. You can also choose to remain blind, some like not seeing why. Some like being a sheep and giving their power away to a sheepard! Not Me!!
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DO YOU? BE YOU! BE TRUE TO YOU ONLY! We are all here to enhance your human experience....your human experiment!!
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How can I encourage you? How can you encourage your Self? I know this ALL to BE just an illusion for the growth of SELF!!
Are you having fun yet? If you are....why? If you are not...why? Doesn't it resonate yet? Waiting for the next energy to choose for you? Are you now choose for your Self, with the blinders off? Why does it resonate? Do YOU know?
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Just Me
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