On attempts to change myself

I think that we would change only when we stop trying to change ourselves and start accepting ourselves just as we are.

I was hunting my better me for so many years, trying to be better (spiritual lol), reading tons of motivational literature etc.

Then I was so tired and exhausted that I simply HAD to stop improving myself.

And - now I feel much beter and more spiritual than when I was trying hard to be a such person! What a relief - I allowed myself to be what I AM!

What experience do you have?

Blessings,
Ivana