Explaining war and terror to children

'Children understand tragedies and fears in terms of their own
developmental level and personalise it to their own experience. It is
important to talk to children honestly and in ways they can
comprehend. Bear in mind, however, that giving them too much
information can be scary and confusing.
Talking to pre-schoolers
Children up to five years of age think of the world in terms of their
direct experience. Three- to five-year-olds might be interested in
ambulances, soldiers, fire engines, people getting hurt, blood, fire,
crashes and buildings falling down. You should try to explain the
idea of war or terror in very simple terms.

Young children may also want to talk about it, repeatedly asking the
same questions. This is because they are not fully able to comprehend
the events or the feelings around them. It is useful to keep
answering their questions, to ask them what they think, to see what
they think would help. Young children might also want to draw
pictures and dictate stories for you to write down.

The most important thing for pre-school-aged children is to reassure
them that you will keep them safe. If they express particular fears,
you can reassure them directly.

Talking to primary school children
Six- to twelve-year-olds are more able to understand events outside
their direct experience. They are able to read, so protecting them
from information about events is unlikely. This is an age where it is
important to listen to children's ideas. They may understand some
parts of the story very clearly and be totally confused about others.

Talking to secondary school children
We are a culture saturated in media violence with few skills to deal
with the feelings associated with real tragedy or fear and fewer
ideas about productive responses. It is likely that many media-
saturated teens will experience confusion about the reality of any
given situation. Many may be avoiding talking about the situation
directly because they don't know what to do about the fear, anger,
confusion and sadness they are feeling.

It is important to bring it up with them and to ask them what they
think about it and how they are feeling. You can also ask them about
how they think their friends are handling it. Some teens may be veryfearful'

I felt some would like to read this....
I am aware of many folk that I have shared with here that have close ones away at "war"

The UK Light Workers Circle
http://www.lightworkers.org/node/9988
ask you all to join us in beaming out to support families who are experiencing having to make these explainations

Warm regards of Love light and Laughter Gaynor (WHolisticUK)
www.universal-learning.co.uk