Living by Thrift and Moderation

Living By Thrift And Moderation

by Wayne Dyer

59th Verse
In governing people and serving nature, nothing surpasses thrift and
moderation.
Restraint begins with giving up one's own ideas.
This depends on virtue gathered in the past.
If there is a good store of virtue,
then nothing is impossible.
If nothing is impossible, then there are no limits.
If a man knows no limits, he is fit to lead.
This is the way to be deeply rooted and firmly planted in the Tao,
the secret of long life and lasting vision.

There are four words that crop up repeatedly in many of the translations of
this passage of the Tao Te Ching: restraint, frugality, moderation and
thrift. Here, Lao-tzu is advising you to examine the way you look at these
qualities in relation to your supervisory and parenting roles - he doesn't
say that you should sit on the sidelines and do nothing, but he does counsel
you to practice self-control. When you cultivate a style of leadership that
creates "a good store of virtue, then nothing is impossible," for there are
no limits.

Living in thrift and moderation means being in harmony with the world
through your generous nature. Rather than continually prodding, directing,
giving orders, setting down rules and demanding obedience, it's important to
be a leader who accumulates a warehouse full of virtue by living in
accordance with the Tao. When that's what you have to give away, you'll
naturally interfere less. Feel joyful knowing that the example you're
modeling is helping others make the right choices, as this is the essence of
Tao leadership. As Lao-tzu specifically states, "a man knows no limits, he
is fit to lead."

People whose lives are run by rules, dogma and fear can only do what they've
been told to do... nothing more. The options for self-direction are
nonexistent for the blindly obedient, so practice restraint, moderation,
frugality and thrift when making pronouncements about how others must
behave. Children raised in families where that blind obedience is demanded
have the highest levels of prejudice when they become adults. Why? Because
they've been taught to "prejudge" what's acceptable, according to someone in
a position to lead them. That's why it's so vital to give your kids an
example of leadership that encourages them to make choices based on higher
standards.

I have a gift from my daughter Saje that I've placed on my desk, which I've
titled, "Nothing is Impossible." It's a green plant growing out of a rock -
there's no dirt or earth, only hard rock, yet it thrives, despite what all
of us have been taught to believe. When Saje gave this to me, she remarked
that it reminded her of me because I've always said - that I refuse to
believe in anything being impossible. My plant helps me remember that nature
knows no limits and that I am as much a part of nature as both the rock and
the greenery growing within that hard stone.

Lao-tzu reminds you that "if nothing is impossible, then there are no
limits." So practice living without limits by gathering virtue and modeling
it. When you do, you'll see the "lasting vision" in those you've been
selected to lead in one way or another and they'll see it in you, too. And
put the wisdom of this 59th verse to work for you by taking these
suggestions:

GATHER AS MUCH VIRTUE AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN

For years I practiced gathering virtue without realizing it. I sent hundreds
of thousands of books to individuals and organizations at my own expense,
getting into the habit of beginning each day with this act of love. I spent
a great deal of time giving away much of what I earned, almost all of it
anonymously. I didn't realize it at the time, but what I was doing was
accumulating virtue or what I facetiously called "God points."

I then found that not all of my life was to be peaks and mountaintops. Yet
when I succeeded in getting out from under what felt like a mountain, I was
virtually unscathed. This is because I was so deeply rooted and firmly
planted in the Tao that my original vision was to be a lasting one,
impervious to external circumstances.

PRACTICE MODERATING YOUR EGO

Change the way you look at your life by moderating your ego. See yourself as
a being who gives rather than collects and live on what you need rather than
practicing conspicuous consumption. You'll begin to see that your purpose
has more to do with Tao consciousness than ego directives. When you moderate
your demands and use only what you and your family require, you'll gather
virtue points by serving rather than accumulating. Lao-tzu reminds you that
this is "the secret of long life and lasting vision."

William Shakespeare described this more than 2,000 years after Lao-tzu's
passing in his play The Third Part of Henry the Sixth:

My crown is in my heart, not on my head;
Not deck'd with diamonds and Indian stones,
Nor to be seen. My crown is call'd content;
A crown it is that seldom kings enjoy.

DO THE TAO NOW

Make a commitment to gather five God points today. Imagine how the Divine
Source of all 10,000 things must be operating in order to maintain the
creation cycles of life and do five things that match up to it. Pick up a
piece of someone else's trash, which is an example of excess; anonymously
give a gift to someone in need; or perform any other actions that help you
accumulate virtue and remain deeply rooted in the Tao.

Excerpted from "Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life: Living the Wisdom
of the Tao."

Shared with Love and Light,Rosalie xo