Acceptance

This sounds simpler than it is.
How can we accept war or dying children.
How can we accept someone bashing in the head of hs wife, because he is drunk.

As a community, we do not acept these things. 
As a community we strive to live in harmony.

However there are and always will be excesses.
Things we don't want as a society.

But, here lies the key answer as wel.

As people of the society we don't want these things to happen.
We will do everything to prevent them.

But when they have happened, we all tend to stick with the result.... and get back to the result over and over.....

When someone kills another.
We are sad in the moment and long after.
We punisch the guy who did it.
Still we feel sad and everytime someone brings it up.. We get sad and/or mad.

What we actualy do is, we keep giving energy to the situation we didn't want. By constantly remembering and by that, being in the situation. he situation lives on in you.... You are everything, so you keep creating that energy.

The only way to deal with this, is do your thing in the moment. Take you steps.
Then, accept that it happened... You can't turn it back.
You don't have to agree with it, but accept the situation as it was.
In time, you will see the big picture and even see that what happened, was meant to happen. Even if you did't like it in the moment..

When you see that patern and than know that it was "you" who created it all and that all is good, then you might even see how that nasty situation helped you grow.

You will in time love EVERYTHING for what it is...

That doesn't mean that you now must settle down and not react when someone tries to hurt you or yours..
It means, live and enjoy life.... It also means that very discission you make at any time... is the right one...