Expectations can ruin your day :-)

Hi to all.

I found that one thing in life that ruins or better yet, ruined my days pretty often, were my expectations.
My expectations in people, events, and my plans i made.

Somehow the universe always played tricks on me.
Everything i imagined, and expected turned out the other way.
Even if my expectation was very real, so real any human would expect them...

I learned of this, that one can not have expectatations.
One can hope for something.
One can even visualise something and then experience it, like it is real (it then actually is, but that is an oher matter)
But in the moment that you expect something to happen/appear or whatever and you "WAIT" for it to happen... It wil not. ever.

I found it to be a state of mind i was in that ruined my chances of that what i wanted happening.

I also found the answer to he whole thing.
But, to know and experience it, you have to be willing to look inside yourself... deep within..

I found that every time i wanted something, i visualised it.
Then i set the conditions of which it was going to be in.
Than i thought of the pah to be walked to achieve it.
Than i acted or waited as i expected it to happen just as i thought.
It never turned out my way though. :-)

Then one day,
As i had an idea of what i wanted, i thought it up.
I visualised it as i would want it.. But no conditions set..
Then i got interrupted... And i had a busy day, doing what i was doing.
At the end of the day, when i was ready, i sat down.
The thought of what i wanted just popped into my head.
I turned around. What i wanted , my vision, my intention was there. It was.
So my wish was fulfilled.

I tried and played with the concept.
The concept of having a vision, an intention of what i wanted and the let it go... Consiously, by doing something else.
It worked... My intentions became reality. Faster ad faster.

Then later i had a course to control my Chi
In this course, that what i learned myself, was confirmed as they teached us in that course.

So, Have no expectations, they won't be fulfilled.
Have an intention and visualise it as it is real already. And enjoy that.
Let it go, consiously.. It is already reality..
You'll see the world around you is changed and your new reality is settled.

I hope you can do something with this.
Maybe you have experiences like this yourself. Please let me know for all sake.

Thank you for reading..

Namaste my friend... ;-)