I feel very low in energy, sleeping very much, not enthusiastic about work, psychically tired and moreover alergy for our cat Ishtar (running nose, sneezing, kinda flue) - doctor said she should leave our house - and my heart is aching...
I dont know how to proceed this problem, I have never had in my life any allergy (had a dog 10 years ago), and after half a year we had a cat, I started to have these health problems.
She is not possible to train (different from dogs...), doesnt take me for serious, and I am angry... She also started to make water into my clothes (not those of my daughter!) - I feel she want to rule over me. And I dont know how to show her what limits she should have at our place. I am scared she will be more angry with me, then me again furious, she making water somewhere, me mad... and intensifying battle. And to give her up - to forfeit her home seems to be cruel to the pet... But she takes my living space!
Thank you for your advice very much,