Indigo...pansexual?

I've spent most of my life wondering why I didnt feel like I fell into any category like bisexual, homosexual, or even just straight. And for me, a romantic relationship doesnt even have to include sex, and Im not attracted to people because of thier gender but because of who they are, and I recently learned that this is what is called Pansexual. I also learned that this is common of crystals and indigos. I dont usually have a hard time coping with not fitting in with other people...i usually just enjoy my solitude, but for some reason, feeling alone in this area is somewhat bothersome. I never even understood myself and my own sexuality, so I think it would be helpful to talk to other indigos/crystals who have experienced this. I think a lot of this has to do with my age, im 21, not young, not old, closer to young, lol...and still trying to figure myself out. Perhaps there are indigos here that have already experienced this who can share thier wisdom with me. Another thing is, because im so open minded and accepting of people and their choice of lifestyle, I often get reprimanded by certain conversation and behavior. It is considered innapropriate by most, but i dont intend for it to be at all, its just that I am not ashamed of sexuality, and I forget that some are!! Grr, its hard cuz I dont WANT to "fit in" but I just wish someone would be more understanding of me. why do they always want me to be the one to conform?

Love, Love.