Hello, dear fellows. I used to post "Path of a Starseed" in blogs category, but decided to continue it here, in "Teachings".

We, Starseeds, have dificult time adjusting to life on Earth. We got used to sense of Unity, to compassion and immediate understanding, and it's all absent here, in 3D realm.

Let's remember, that people here need time to develop sense of Unity, compassion etc. But till time hasn't come we have to learn some 3D communication skills.

First of all, I learnt to state - STOP doing that, you are making me unhappy, you are violating my energetic or physical space!

Before that I silently suffered and waited untill another person noticed that, or somebody came to help me :). Recently I felt myself strong enough to defence my self. In that occasion we don't even need to state something - people feel our power.

Of course, all of us have their basic fears, our hidden dragoons. As Starhealers have told me, we have to turn these powerfull enemies to allies and friends. We have to face them.

My basic fear, that controlled me for a very long time was fear to be blamed and judged. I overcame many others, like fear of being rejected and abandoned. But this last one is the strongest.
And in fact, all people closest to me tend to judge! And very harshly!

You are bad mother and wife... you are not loving and caring enough ( and that was said in a case, when I was sacrificing myself!)... you destroyed all, it's all your fault... etc... etc...
I was so afraid of that: "It's all your fault!".
Very often we are so defenceless when closest people judge us.

In that case just remember - the judgment is a negativity that they have to overcome, and they will, of course. The judgment can be "right" and "loving", but in that case you won't be scared or depressed, just the opposite, you'll be gratefull and full of hope. So, turn their judgment into righteous one, and thank them.

If the judgment is depressing you, it means that your personal power is taken away from you. It's very important for us starseeds, to protect our energy and personal power.

Very often I supressed and judged my feelings and emotions, in order to please others. But recently I learnt to honour my feelings, first through my kids. I always support their feelings, but sometimes explain them, that it can hurt or cause discomfort to other beings, so we have to be considerate.

The other subject is negativity, that comes from our closets people. Very often we can't shield them, and feel like we are dragged from heaven to hell, because we've already succeded in raising our vibrations.

In that case, of course, we can withdraw from that relationships, but sometimes it's not possible, or we don't want it - deeply in our heart.
That's because we have to face that situation. We have to face that negativity and remain in heaven. We can do that very often, but sometimes it seems so difficult. But it only "seems".

I used to be thrown out of balance by other peoples agression and blamings, but now... First of all, I relax myself and let people experience what they feel now. I let myself react to that - being sad, nervious etc. After that I'm calm and relaxed again, or I tell the other person - please, STOP it, I cannot take it anymore. Leave me alone with that or let's find a solution... and so on, depends on situation.

That's all for now. Please share your comments and experience, will be very gratefull :).