Being a Starseed woman is ... weird ( I will not say "difficult" to avoid dramatization :) ) Not everyone of you will resonate with this, of course,as far as we all are from different realms, having various tasks.
What seems so weird to me? I never understood any single rule of being a woman here, on Earth. It is sad that "shoes make woman a REAl woman". For me shoes were just instrument of walking on Earth. I never paid attention on them.
All other attributes - make-up, jewelery, dressing - are meant to draw attention of men. I never understood, WHY should I draw attention of males, why should I look sexy  and seducing for everybody? They already had their choices, probably, they are happy and in love, why should my energy interfere?
For me make-up, jewelery and dressings are nice things to play with colors and express yourself. They don't draw my attention as much.
Moreover, until I reached my thirties, I never understood the meaning of all these. I was ridiculed at school and University. Many people called me naive... very few called me "angel" or "saint":).
I only adored jewelery for their beauty and magic, and wore them a lot in my teenages. My dear mom misunderstood me, saying - "Yes, you are trying to draw attention, I understand you" :).
Many times I heard that "girls are only interested in money( at least 90 percent of them). If male has money, he could conquer any woman". This expression seemed absolutely shocking for me, I tried to convince them that it is terribly wrong. They never listened.
Besides, males never noticied me, I seemed absolutely "transparent" for them. It was very distressing for me as far as I wanted love and appreciation. Now the reason seems obvious for me. My energy just wasn't resonating with energies of this world. Female energies are often about seducing and manipulating, male energies are about sexual pleasure ( relating to woman, of course). Males and Females are aware of each other's goals, and don't mind against it.
It is not bad, absolutely, it is just the set of rules in 3D world. I just wasn't aware of that, and felt bad and inadequate.
Probably the traits I described are the traits of Crystal Woman. It is also possible that Crystal males also don't have mundane energies, and aren't interested in money, sex, and don't treat woman as a subject.
Besides, it is possible that very often we, Crystalls, fall in love with very "mundane" woman or man, and suffer, because we don't resonate with them, they ignore and even despise us. That happens if we felt misunderstood and unappreciated in childhood and youth. This sence of inadequacy draws such unhappy romance in our lives. 
To overcome these lessons we just have to understand and accept who we are. Divine human beings, carrying pure vibrations in ourselves, helping humanity to cleanse and get read  of old paradigmes.