I listened to a Ron van Dyke video on overcoming the ego by integrating with your higher self. I agree with what Ron says about the Big Lies of both the Western religions (Judeo-Christian, Muslim) and the Eastern religions (Hinduism, Buddhism, etc.). All religions share some wonderful truths, but all are also full of lies.
Before you read on, I highly recommend you take a few minutes to listen to Ron's entire video, regardless of your religious background or whether or not you consider yourself "new age." When you view this video, you will know that Ron van Dyke is the real thing.
To access Ron's video on overcoming the ego by integrating with your higher self, please click on the link below. Then come back to read the rest of this post for the how-to info.
I agree with Ron that Eckhardt Tolle's teachings on the ego (that we must deny the ego, we must bring it down a peg or two, we must become "ego-free") are pure nonsense. Eckhardt Tolle's teachings never resonated with me as I knew the key to enlightenment was not in denying a part of us but in integrating, becoming whole and understanding the bigger picture of life here. When I read his first book The Power of Now (because a relative had recommended it highly), I didn't get what the big deal was. I did not hide my opinions abou this; I had shared my ideas about the ego and the importance of integration in my first book, What Everyone Believed: A Memoir of Intuition and Awakening and I wrote a couple of articles disagreeing with Tolle's ideas back in 2008 and 2009. (Once I did that though, I concentrated my efforts on promoting the how-to of reconnecting and integrating with your higher self.)
Ron does not go into the how-to of connecting and integrating with your higher self. Sharing the "how-to" steps in plain English (including sharing real-life examples) is what I had concentrated my efforts on for the last ten years or so.
The How-To of Connecting and Integrating with your Higher Self
In a nutshell, the how-to involves reconnecting with your higher self with an effective meditation practice, learning to recognize and distinguish your inner guidance from your mental conditionings and your wants, gaining enough confidence and trust in your inner guidance such that you follow through with it promptly and consistently, even if doing so puts you in a (temporarily) uncomfortable situation, and then paying attention to what happens over time.
When you follow through with your inner guidance the "Universe" will bring you the results you need (new insights, "aha moments," favorable synchronicities) so that you gain more and more confidence in your connection until eventually you get to a point where you follow your own inner guidance rather than the advice of those whom you considered the experts in their field (e.g. the "Eckhardt Tolles of the world"). It's not that you will disregard all expert advice, not at all. But having a bigger picture viewpoint will help put things in proper perspective.
Following through with your inner guidance and making changes consistent with the nudges of your higher self is how you integrate with your higher self. If you ignore your higher self, if you ignore your inner guidance and just do as you did before (by just following conventional wisdom or how others want you to behave), you can't expect to integrate with your higher self and you can't expect to activate the higher power within you!
The process of connecting and integrating with your higher self isn't something that happens overnight and it isn't just a good thing to do, it's a requirement right now. It's how you discover and fulfill your higher purpose and unique contribution toward the Great Shift. It's how you fulfill your potential and create the success you always wanted, your own Golden Age. And it's how you do your part, through your contribution, to create the Golden Age for all beings on the Earth.
Want to learn how to integrate with your higher self and activate the higher force within you? The eBook, Activating 2012: A Practical Guide for Navigating 2012 with Confidence and Clarity contains clear, easy to understand steps in plain English, including real-life examples. Just click the link below:
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