Some of the questions that flicker on the screens of many minds surround love. You may have found yourself wondering exactly what love is and why it is that so much of what might at first seem to be love is actually un-love. You may look around you and see the word "love" used in situations where there is little kindness or compassion. At times the word love is used to explain or justify acts of deception and violence. It’s true, in your world the word love is sometimes used to describe intentions that are the opposite of love. When viewed from this perspective, it’s easy to see how many develop a sense of distrust around the word.
Our true nature is that of love. As we align our thoughts and actions with this essence of our being, we are able to expand our experience and understanding of unconditional love. This helps us "tune in" the New Earth and send out a frequency that attracts a soulmate. True, unconditional love is the foundation that the New Earth is built upon. Unconditional love begins with loving oneself.
True Love Begins with Self-love
True love is at its root self-love. Self-love is love of one's essence, love of the spark or spirit that is life. It is this spark that ties you to all that exists in this universe. Cultivating self-love is cultivating this spark of all-that-is that exists within yourself and all forms of life.
Self-love is sometimes viewed as "self-centered." Self- centeredness carries with it negative connotations. This is a misunderstanding. Part of wholeness is being centered within yourself. To be centered other than "within yourself" creates imbalances that lead to dependencies, addictions, over-investment in physical reality, and conditions of "un-love."
Contrary to some threads of belief, loving yourself never gets in the way of loving others. In fact, it is a pre-requisite for truly loving others. Self-love is where love for all others incubates. When you experience oneness with all aspects of yourself, you experience oneness with others.
The Power of Unconditional Love
The true vibration of love has nothing to do with negative emotions or lower vibrational intentions. In this way, it’s easy to recognize the feeling state of true love.
Unconditional love lifts you up. It never brings you down. If you are experiencing pain and suffering around issues of love, you are experiencing un-love. There is no need to be distressed by this. When you recognize you are experiencing un-love, you are a few steps from experiencing unconditional love. All circumstances can be transformed with awareness.
Excerpt from Manifesting Your Inner Soulmate in Physical Reality By DL Zeta