Hey guys. So basically I am an empath and a crystal. I've been consciously working on improving myself by instantly identifying when I've fallen into other people's energy patterns. Now I can pretty much stay in my own energy while still being able to feel and identify the energy of others. Anyways I feel there is this clear divide starting to emerge between people that are going to ascend and people that are going to pass on into another 3d reality. Well, I have a friend who has been one of my best friends since I was about 5 or 6. Honestly, I am not sure if he is going to ascend. Most people I know are starting to open their minds to spiritual concepts and as a result their lives are starting to improve. Well my friend is sinking deeper and deeper into the negative energies. It is to the point that I can't even be around him for any longer than an hour or so. I have gotten to the point where I just dissolve most negative energy but with him it takes so much effort. It is like he is dumping all of his energy on me and when I'm done being around him I am exhausted. I hung out with him yesterday for the first time in 2 weeks and today I feel horrible. It is like I have taken 3 steps in the opposite direction in terms of clearing.
I am not sure what to do. I dont what to cut him completely out of my life but I can't allow myself to always feel this way afterwards.
July 26, 2011, 8:45 pm
Hi Titus, what you have described has been the story of my life, I despaired of ever being free of the uncomfortable energies others hold onto until I did one of Natalie Glassons meditations and some very enlightened beings took a good look at how my energy field had been invaded because I tried to help others. 40 years of carrying others on my shoulders stopped 6 hours later when this message was posted on Natalies' site.Timing was amazing. I sat and cried with relief once I had asked, response was instantaneous, then I got angry for a while - why didn't I know about this years ago.
Here is the site and the channeling, Blessings upon you and I hope this works for you as well as it did for me:). http://www.omna.org/13-06-11-Archangel_Michael_Faith.html
I do this every day, and sometimes several times a day, particularly if I am going out. I have also directed a number of friends who work in the healing field to this message and it has made a huge difference for them as well.
Love & Light
June 22, 2011, 3:50 am
Here are a few tricks I picked up on my journey...
I close my eyes, see myself standing...out of the ground come mirrors about a foot wide and they encircle me one by one. They face outwards-who is looking at me sees themself. On the top where it is open, I have a white ball of light come over and out of the light is white lace webs...they are transparent and cover the mirrors...the idea being to protect yourself from negative energies.
If you not in the mood or get lazy, like me sometimes...call your guide. They know what to do. They never failed yet.
I want to say that I was in public and some guy goosed my behind. He was sitting behind me in a public place. I put the mirror up and this dude GOT UP and sat on the other side of the room, turned around, looked at me like "What did you just do to me?" and I just smiled :) It works.
June 20, 2011, 6:38 am
It's done by energetically linking to you. When we are close to someone we build pathways to them via bonds. I think that this is just the way we've done it all these millennia cos we haven't understood that our energy is our own. So we use it to help others in a 'selfless' version of conditional love.
Both of you will have energetic links with each other as your friendship has grown.
If you sit quietly with yourself, try and sense where the link is. If you cannot simply ask for the tie/s to be cut (there could be many).
Have a look at the channels I have done from Athena - she explains quite a lot about our darker side, families and friendship.
Your energy is for you and your body. If you want to supply your friend with energy allow it to come through you from the universal flow.
June 19, 2011, 11:48 pm
Letting the energy flow through you takes a lot of courage, and sometimes I can't do it. But what you're saying makes sense. Also, I suspect he is sucking my energy dry. But I don't understand how it is possible for someone to do that?
I Agree With Pallas....a Good
June 19, 2011, 11:47 pm
I agree with Pallas....a good practice,with no resistance:
"So I've learnt to open my heart and allow the energies to flow through it and out the other side. This way it goes through me rather than on or into me."
June 19, 2011, 8:10 pm
It is very difficult to be around negative people when an empath. I don't shield because I have found that the energy tends to weigh me down and beat at me and I feels worse. So I've learnt to open my heart and allow the energies to flow through it and out the other side. This way it goes through me rather than on or into me.
I ask that these energies run through my heart through the flame of the white, blue and green fires and be violet flamed on the way out to return from whence it came as loving caring kindness.
The white fire is purity and cleansing, the blue fire is peace and prosperity and the green fire is love and truth.
The person receiving it back from you in a changed form then has the choice to make the changes and use this energy to help them. It doesn't always work but stops me from getting bogged down by their 'stuff'. It simply flows through me.
Others might disagree but this through experimentation I have found the best for me.
Your friend could also be attached to you energetically and is sucking you dry to prop himself up. Cut the ties. No one deserves your energy except you.
Hello There :) Try Chakra
June 19, 2011, 6:39 pm
Hello there :) Try Chakra Healing. Bringing violet Flame to all chakras and healing them till they shine bright. I am an empath too, so I feel your pain there. It can be certainly draining for you!! Chakra Healing meditation is helping me to rapidly refocus my energies back within me and keep me calm and stop enveloping emotional energies of other people around. Hope your find what works for you:) in love and service.